Words To Comfort

PS: Cry and Smile are the best medicine ever to cure oneself. Trust me.

My Bestfriend Wedding (Barakallahu fikum)

To Find The Woman In Me

Part1: A Letter To 'You'

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dearest you,

it's been 3 DECADES. and i'm sure you'll reach the figure of 31 this may soon. so why am i writing this letter to you? i believe in this 'cruel' yet amazing world we have to tell and share things together. at this moment, i know that you are pretty alone. you know what i mean? but trust me then, wonderful creature like you absolutely not alone! and if you said you’re quite feeling blue with unstable emotion, these are also not true. i know know the feeling of living without a perfect family environment currently. yes it may be true living with a m** by your side without a f***** beside is not good to your inner feeling. especially when you really need to see a real role of a g*** man for you to find your 'imam' at this age. but wait! u have to be strong and have faith. i know lately you are sometime have to live with different roles. sometime as a 'brother' , and some other time as  a 'man' to some others at the same time as a 'husband' to yourself . *funny but true*. and i am very sure these are the reasons why most of the time you always feels like few people esp. men are a totally STRANGERS to you.  And that’s not a good news because you always seems FORGET to behave and be like a real woman for your own good.

remember looking back 15 years ago. how you used to act like a someone else who is not ‘a real you’ like now? i know being 'not you' wasn’t your first choice. yet it’s just a ‘fun-season’ during school days huh. but no worry dear.

and comes 2000 . few things changed a little by a little. and you started to find it’s hard to understand yourself.

my little girl…

see beyond anything. please lemme share few words and just consider it from your biological f***** . when choosing a a man, don’t you ever evaluate Adam by how much money he has. Look for the quality like he will be able to be a leader and guide you to Jannah. Pray from now he’s the one who can be an ‘Imam’ to you and your children. A man who is also respect his mother. Love his mother. And love his family. And loving man to his own family members. Cause once he love and respect women around him, he willing to love you the best he can. And find a man who you can lay your head on his shoulder. And share any stories that you wanna share with him.

Remember!

Looks do not last. Pray that you both can COMPLETE each other. Why? Because at the end of the day…as a woman,  as muslimah lady  and as a wife one day , Jannah is your goal!

Learn To Love The One You Found

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.

Because:
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy.

And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws of universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.

If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God (ALLAH) determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO...

Ps: Someone refuse to let go you...you...yeah you!

I'm Not OK...Need A H**

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Goodbye My Love

Hello lovely readers!
Aunty always love this song. So hopefully everyone here would love to.....listen to it.

PS: Happy working. And bless in everything we do. Insya-Allah.

Meaningful 2012 Bountiful 2013

Assalamualaykum and surprising hello to everyone here.....

Million missing all of you RFB (readers followers bloggers) out there. Now we're in the mid of January. Leaving 20 days right for 2012. So where has aunty been before? Without any single wish for 2013.

Adjusting my rear mirror: Ehemmm....So here's updates. Let's do some reverse-psycho. Looking back. Close the eyes and share the 'tears'...

Pioneer

Camera shy N.M Kaashif  

A 'Pioneer' Kaashif. We have been bless for a new caliph, another baby boy in the house. Officially have three fruity kids. Less is more.
PS: 3 Wishes so he'll grow strong , healthy..and soleh.

'Inter-Milan'

The veteran interviewers whom formally attired with smart casual with songkok just made us used to call them 'Dato'. All six. Four kings, and two queens. An opening question starts as I sat on the chair in the center of U-shape meeting table room, was like this. "Your front name given sounds Pakistani and Arab. Are you part of Pakistani blood? Quickly I said NO and proudly said," I'm genuinely Kelantanese." (Ore Klate sejati). But YES the name came with history. My queen of my heart 'fall in love' with the front name when one of her sister's friend from Paki came to visit Kelantan 30 years ago as a guest! So I was born and name after it. Back to it.....the iV session went smoothly without any question related to Al-Sultan or zakat, or even baitulmal. So how do we feel? All I can say ...  it's a dream post for all twelve of us came and great offer. Alhamdulillah. Need more duas. Just believes Allah is the Greatest Planner at all.
Q's: Who really deserves it?

My Meter's Running Low. Supernova!

Unofficially as a 'nomad'. You know that right? Go here...then you go there. People want you...and at the same time you also need loved ones to be at your side. Exchanging ideas, facing, discussing matters on earth with few quarrel but still sharing great moment thru laughing.  Prepare and share the meals together. All the ups and downs will make you a better and 'tuff' inside and outside as time goes by. And forget not...to pack your bags and move to another journey on the road. Then feeling exhausted. The feeling like a roamer lately. Getting used to it and be strong, and have faith. That's the medicine!
PS: Work More, Earn More, Learn More, Love More ;-) ...

Serious Haji-Man
Funny but true: Just accept that is's an 'honour' to be proposed by someone who is 40 years 'matured' than you. Hahah! That's it. We're not going to comment more on this matter. Whatttaaa confused....but deep down...much salute the haji-man effort. At least he's being true to himself. So here's Aunty's tip on How to stop all this.
PS: Block the # / just text 'I'm Engaged!'  (Tipu sunat OK whattttt)

'Marry' Life Will Take Over....Who Is The Saviour?

At this moment...am happy to confess how happy I am with work life. I know men are quite 'tak suka' when women always talk about career life. Heaven yes! As an ordinary woman , yes we're looking for a once-in-a-lifetime marriage soon. One thing some people do not understand...how hard the woman walk, talk and react in front of others...at the end of the day she actually needs a man to 'stop and remind' her this and that. And so the man. To be complete...not incomplete. A man who really looks with his 'heart' can feel this. Maybe! To stop all this hanky panky life, all the eeewww-talk and grrrrr-eye-contact from outsiders. (Remember: To complete your other half imaan just because of Allah! Not because you're desperate ... stranded...or feeling so bluueeeee.
PS: Life is too short. So be real!

Push a little convince and believes.........life must be lead and control by us wholeheartedly....no matter how sad you are...just try your 'best beat'  to plant a S.M.I.L.E on other people face. And most of all...be the best to 'berbakti kepada orang tua' which means your bio-parents. Because once you get married ... maybe its lil hard to do things like single before. So this I promise you. No worries.  Jadi berbaktilah sepuas hati kamu!!!! Are we in the right track... brothers and sisters...??? 

Wallahualam...

Last but not least,

We prefer late than never. To all wonder'fulla readers and bloggers companion here...aunty and team behind wish ya a very ....

"BARAKAH 2013 & MAY ALLAH THE MOST BENEFICENT & THE MOST MERCIFUL BLESS US ALL !!!"

Let't joyride with Dream Car!

Ta-Ta from now. Until we meet again. InsyaAllah. Bless.

Kata Mereka ...

KATA BOMBA-CINTA tak boleh dipadam.
KATA POLIS-CINTA itu sukar ditangkap.
KATA TENTERA-CINTA itu tak boleh ditembak.
KATA USTAZ-CINTA itu anugerah.
KATA DOKTOR-CINTA itu tak dapat diubati.
KATA GURU-CINTA tak boleh untuk dipelajari.
KATA HAKIM-CINTA itu tak boleh dihukum.
KATA PELUKIS-CINTA itu indah.
KATA ULAMA-CINTA ALLAH kekal abadi.

PS: KATA AUNTY...CINTA itu hadiah untuk diri!

Obses & Jatuh Cinta Berkali-kali

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Pernah bercinta tak? Siapa pernah bercinta dan berkahwin dengan cinta hatinya? Maknanya jodoh itu panjang dan memang Allah tetapkan si dia itu pasangan hidup kita. Tetapi sejauh mana jodoh kita dengan pasangan itu cerita lain. Aunty tak nak bercerita mengenai itu. Aunty cuma nak kongsikan betapa aunty dapat rasakan memilih buku dan memperoleh teman / pasangan hidup ada persamaan. Kepada 'kaki buku' mungkin pernah rasa apa yang aunty rasa. Aunty biasanya akan masuk kedai buku dengan penuh rasa teruja dan semangat. Kalau wanita lain 'excited' sangat dengan dunia fesyen dan segala bagai butik, aunty sebaliknya. Alhamdulillah aunty sudah anggap perasaan ini satu yang normal dan yang terbaik Allah kurniakan dalam hati aunty. Kalau pergi dalam keadaan demam silap haribulan boleh sembuh dari demam. Dan kalau pergi dalam keadaan stres , Insyaallah akan hilang dibawa angin. Dan sejak zaman berpengajian hinggalah ke zaman berkarier ini, aunty akan cuba mencari satu tempat yang ada banyak 'himpunan perkataan' di dalamnya. Biasanya begitulah. Rasanya mereka yang obses dengan buku sahaja dapat merasai 'angau' dek 'panahan asmara' buku-buku yang pada aunty paling 'mencairkan kalbu'.

Nak kenal dengan siapa aunty sempat 'berkenalan' dalam masa satu jam?

Kisah cinta dalam Al-quran
Tika Bidadari Berbisik
Tokoh idola muslimah
Berdua lebih baik
U-turn ke jalan lurus
Golongan yang didoakan malaikat
Allah is calling
Mencari pasangan hidup
Tuhan sedang menguji kita (Ustaz kazim elias)
Wanita yang dirindui syurga
La tahzan kerana cinta
La tahzan gadisku
La tahzan kerana jodoh

Pada awalnya aunty mencapai Berdua Lebih Baik. Tapi di akhir perkenalan ... aunty memilih untuk membawa pulang Tika Bidadari Berbisik sebagai satu lagi koleksi peribadi. Alhamdulillah. Moga ini keputusan dan pilihan yang terbaik!

PS: Kepada 'kenalan' yang lain...usah berkecil hati ya...ada rezeki Ilahi aunty singgah lagi dan akan 'menyunting' anda semua sebagai koleksi!!!

Sudden Thing

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Nuzul Quran

"SALAM NUZUL QURAN TO ALL MUSLIMS"

PS: Have a barakah day.

A Treasured Moment

A moment with Allahyarham Sajaudin Maarof and Dato' Dr. Ilias Husain
during Kembara Jalur Lebar CBC (J) May 23 2012

AL-FATIHAH to the late Haji Sajaudin Maarof.

(For all muslim friends and readers here, please donate Al-Fatihah for him. As we pray he is among those who are blessed by Allah.)



bad news

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ps: lost for words

A Woman On The Go

Sometime when we enjoy the good time with family sudden thing will come. And we have to rearrange our schedule to make it done and satisfy for both parties.

The diabetes meeting will be held at 2PM, and need to be a good 'runner' at the same time. Thank God there's no invitation for the so-called 'bekwoh' or 'makey gulay' for me this school break.

 The smokey food for our breakfast just now was just great. Tasty and super-yummylicious. Thanks to all family members who make it done. This time without our lil bro Najib Fahmi. So bro you have to wait next week for 2nd round huh. And big bro in law just come. Experiencing his 'hot and spicy breakfast'.

PS: Previous minute meeting is waiting for me. Ayuyay...God please help me!

What's Your Agenda?

Morning everyone!

Suddenly feel like to eat something fried, fresh, baked and hot and smokey....

Smokey? Weird.

*Looking for some quickie fresh breakfast.
Aunty wish ya all have a great rest day today with family and friends!

PS: Aunty still with pretty bad running nose. Today is the 10th day not in the pink of health.

Miracle Year For Aunty!

First of all aunty wanna wish a belated but warm and full of excitement birthday again ... to the owner of this blog!

"HAVE A BARAKAH BIRTHDAY TO YOU AUNTY!"

Actually this entry is dedicated to bonda , the one gave birth and brought me to this crazy beautiful world! * Special song I LOVE YOU SO by MAHER ZAIN to mami who's now doing Umrah together with her husband.* People used to say and believed...if you wanna know a woman, know her mother first. Haaaa...what does it mean? Aunty let you 'decode' it yourself. The answer is subjective maybe. And gift gift gift...? Done bought something for my own. Not a pricey one but still priceless to me then. Who cares what. This little gift is as above. With little one as front cover. Don't tell anyone but frankly speaking....aunty hope one day will have our own 'ulama-ulama kecil'. And if the time has come true it's gonna be the greatest gift from Allah to be a mother. And aunty wish to be call as 'ibu'. *They're already two mami and mami in the house. Last words ... just hope and wish year now and  then ...will be a miracle years to aunty. Like it or not ... Oh I love 30!

PS: No more flood of wishes like before. 'Tua dah kan!' (LOL)



Almost Reach The Figure

Aunty will turns to '3 SERIES' tomorrow. *Aiyoooo... * Cannot believe how fast time left us. Now 2012. Yes I love no. 12 anyway. You know that kinda 'pejam celik pejam celik' people used to say. So in the early of this figure...sure it'll be more and more things and surpises will come to us until gonna reach no. 4 then (scary).

Orang Melayu used to say this, "Hidup kena tabah hadapi cabaran"

Aunty just hope can go with any challenges with the big heart in me! And when I feel just can't go on...aunty will just ...

GO WITH THE FLOW!

PS: Am wearing bonda's kurung. And pretty can feel her aura this whole day. Miss em much. Hope both doin just fine there. *Glad that I can fit most of her things. 'Anak Mami' what...

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"Mimpi, impian, angan-angan dan cita-cita; semua itu berada dalam satu keluarga, walaupun kedudukan mereka berbeza."

Ini antara kata-kata terawal yang tertulis dalam satu artikel akhbar Sinar Harian bertarikh 18 April tulisan kolumnis Farush Khan dalam segmen ‘Di mana bumi dipijak’.

Menurut kamus, mimpi adalah sesuatu yang seolah-olah dialami atau dilihat sewaktu tidur; impian dikaitkan dengan cita-cita yang bukan-bukan; angan-angan mimpi kepada khayalan; sementara cita-cita pula ditafsirkan merangkumi harapan dan kehendak.

Apa pun, elemen-elemen ini bergabung dalam satu senario yang sangat  menarik. Hakikatnya semua orang, pada suatu ketika dalam hidup masing-masing, melalui pengalaman mimpi, impian, angan-angan dan cita-cita.

“Saya ada satu impian…………..

Malaysia ini negara Islam dan biarlah kita mencatat sejarah sebagai negara Islam pertama di dunia mencapai status negara maju.”

Ini bukan impian Nusrat! Kalau ada yang belum sedar, ini adalah impian Perdana Menteri Malaysia Datuk Seri Najib Razak.

Dan impian PM itu membuatkan Nusrat mencongak menggunakan kalkulator kecil dan mulakan operasi tambah tolak. Dan sekiranya masih dipanjangkan usia dan rezeki berterusan, Nusrat akan mencapai usia 38 menjelang 2020! Satu angka yang cukup matang rasanya bagi wanita.

Pepatah Inggeris ada menyatakan …. “Life begins at forty.”  Tetapi ini khas bagi lelaki.

Pepatah Nusrat ...”Life begins at thirty.” OK..ini khas bagi wanita! ;)

PS: Tinggal 22 hari lagi Nusrat genap 30.

Sumber Artikel: Mimpi impian ada di mana sahaja

VISIT KELANTAN 2012 (TAHUN MELAWAT KELANTAN)

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